The Inspirer
As an ENFP, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you take things in primarily via your intuition. Your secondary mode is internal, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit in with your personal value system.
ENFPs are warm, enthusiastic people, typically very bright and full of potential. They live in the world of possibilities, and can become very passionate and excited about things. Their enthusiasm lends them the ability to inspire and motivate others, more so than we see in other types. They can talk their way in or out of anything. They love life, seeing it as a special gift, and strive to make the most out of it.
ENFPs have an unusually broad range of skills and talents. They are good at most things which interest them. Project-oriented, they may go through several different careers during their lifetime. To onlookers, the ENFP may seem directionless and without purpose, but ENFPs are actually quite consistent, in that they have a strong sense of values which they live with throughout their lives. Everything that they do must be in line with their values. An ENFP needs to feel that they are living their lives as their true Self, walking in step with what they believe is right. They see meaning in everything, and are on a continuous quest to adapt their lives and values to achieve inner peace. They're constantly aware and somewhat fearful of losing touch with themselves. Since emotional excitement is usually an important part of the ENFP's life, and because they are focused on keeping "centered", the ENFP is usually an intense individual, with highly evolved values.
An ENFP needs to focus on following through with their projects. This can be a problem area for some of these individuals. Unlike other Extroverted types, ENFPs need time alone to center themselves, and make sure they are moving in a direction which is in sync with their values. ENFPs who remain centered will usually be quite successful at their endeavors. Others may fall into the habit of dropping a project when they become excited about a new possibility, and thus they never achieve the great accomplishments which they are capable of achieving.
Most ENFPs have great people skills. They are genuinely warm and interested in people, and place great importance on their inter-personal relationships. ENFPs almost always have a strong need to be liked. Sometimes, especially at a younger age, an ENFP will tend to be "gushy" and insincere, and generally "overdo" in an effort to win acceptance. However, once an ENFP has learned to balance their need to be true to themselves with their need for acceptance, they excel at bringing out the best in others, and are typically well-liked. They have an exceptional ability to intuitively understand a person after a very short period of time, and use their intuition and flexibility to relate to others on their own level.
Because ENFPs live in the world of exciting possibilities, the details of everyday life are seen as trivial drudgery. They place no importance on detailed, maintenance-type tasks, and will frequently remain oblivous to these types of concerns. When they do have to perform these tasks, they do not enjoy themselves. This is a challenging area of life for most ENFPs, and can be frustrating for ENFP's family members.
An ENFP who has "gone wrong" may be quite manipulative - and very good it. The gift of gab which they are blessed with makes it naturally easy for them to get what they want. Most ENFPs will not abuse their abilities, because that would not jive with their value systems.
ENFPs sometimes make serious errors in judgment. They have an amazing ability to intuitively perceive the truth about a person or situation, but when they apply judgment to their perception, they may jump to the wrong conclusions.
ENFPs who have not learned to follow through may have a difficult time remaining happy in marital relationships. Always seeing the possibilities of what could be, they may become bored with what actually is. The strong sense of values will keep many ENFPs dedicated to their relationships. However, ENFPs like a little excitement in their lives, and are best matched with individuals who are comfortable with change and new experiences.
Having an ENFP parent can be a fun-filled experience, but may be stressful at times for children with strong Sensing or Judging tendancies. Such children may see the ENFP parent as inconsistent and difficult to understand, as the children are pulled along in the whirlwind life of the ENFP. Sometimes the ENFP will want to be their child's best friend, and at other times they will play the parental authoritarian. But ENFPs are always consistent in their value systems, which they will impress on their children above all else, along with a basic joy of living.
ENFPs are basically happy people. They may become unhappy when they are confined to strict schedules or mundane tasks. Consequently, ENFPs work best in situations where they have a lot of flexibility, and where they can work with people and ideas. Many go into business for themselves. They have the ability to be quite productive with little supervision, as long as they are excited about what they're doing.
Because they are so alert and sensitive, constantly scanning their environments, ENFPs often suffer from muscle tension. They have a strong need to be independent, and resist being controlled or labeled. They need to maintain control over themselves, but they do not believe in controlling others. Their dislike of dependence and suppression extends to others as well as to themselves.
ENFPs are charming, ingenuous, risk-taking, sensitive, people-oriented individuals with capabilities ranging across a broad spectrum. They have many gifts which they will use to fulfill themselves and those near them, if they are able to remain centered and master the ability of following through.
It seems pretty accurate.
It's been almost a month since Sheldon's been gone. I've been keeping myself so busy with work and whatever else I can find to do. Kelsey gets married this Saturday. It's so crazy. Then she's going to be moving away on Wednesday or Thursday. :( But I think I'll be okay with out her for the most part. I've still got Blair for a little bit, and I've been making more and more new friends.
Sheldon's sister's wedding was on the 12th. I'm glad I went. It gave Kelsey and I a better idea of how her wedding is going to be. His mom wasn't so happy that I went, though. I'm pretty sure she hates me again. But whatever.
My birthday is less than thirty days away. I can't wait. I'm going to San Diego with Alex to visit Kelsey and Wade. That's gonna be my birthday present from him. It's going to be so much fun.
I've been working more and more lately. By the end of this week, I'll've put in forty or so hours. Which will be good for my paycheck.
I bought a new car. I don't have it yet. My dad doesn't have the time to fix it right now. But I hope he will soon. My car is falling apart more and more as the days go on. I realized that part of the muffler is missing, and I'm not sure how long it's been like that...
Yeahhhhhh.
I believe we came from the same cloud
Two drops in the ocean.
Tell me again, the story of when we
We will be together one day.
We're two of a kind, forever we've been combined
Though the currents will pull us apart
Two drops in the ocean
You are part of me, the other side of the sea
And we will be together one day
Hey, hey what can I say?
I swim your way though the tide pulled us away
I asked you, whatcha gonna do?
Oceans apart but I know no one else will do
Two drops in the ocean, just go with the motion dear
We'll meet again, from two rivers that delta to shore
Two drops in the ocean
Fall into me, dissolve in the sea
The boundaries between; they are nothing
The love we have; the only real thing, yeah.
There is a stone wall around your heart
Nothing left now to do but to start
Chipping away, day by day
Until we see it break apart
Hear me talkin, about let it be known
It can be done, bit by bit and one by one
If the two of us try from both the two sides
Until we see the sun; you're phenomenal
Two drops in the ocean
Just go with the motion
All the fish in the sea, not for me.
You're something of a different kind
The rest evaporate, but you stay in my mind.
There is a stone wall around your heart
Nothing left now to do but to start
Chipping away, day by day
Until we see it break apart
Hear me talkin, about let it be known
It can be done, bit by bit and one by one
If the two of us try from both the two sides
Until we see the sun; you're phenomenal
Hey, hey what can I say?
I swim your way though the tide pulled us away
I asked you, whatcha gonna do?
Oceans apart but I know no one else will do
Two drops in the ocean, just go with the motion dear
Sheldon and I really are oceans apart now. I hope it gets easier.
